Hey friends!
✨ New feature alert! ✨
Starting today, I’ll be sharing a fun and useful tool to help you plan, navigate, and actually enjoy your dream life abroad — on the first Friday of each month.
These posts will be free throughout April, so you can explore, play, and decide if you want to stick around. After that, they’ll be part of the paid tier—but for now, it’s all yours. Think of it as a trial run for the life you’re dreaming about.
We’re kicking things off with a quiz!
(Throwback to the old Cosmo days—do people still read Cosmo??)
If you’re into what we’re building here at Girls’ Guide to Living Abroad, please consider subscribing and joining our fast-growing, delightfully curious crew:
Ready?! Take this quiz to help you figure out where in the world you might actually thrive.
Whether you’re planning a big move, plotting your escape, or just dreaming of your next chapter, this is a fun first step toward discovering what kind of life might truly suit you.
📌 Grab a pen and paper (or just keep track in your Notes app) and tally how many times you answer A, B, C, or D.
Bonus: You can now use your destination personality to filter through 277+ destinations in our giant Living Abroad Locales database, now live! Check it out here.
Determine Your Destination Personality
If you had one “perfect” day, how would you spend it?
A. Wandering through museums and galleries, then dancing the night away at a rooftop bar
B. Floating in turquoise water, then sipping something fruity under a palm tree
C. Hiking up to a jaw-dropping view, then curling up fireside with a glass of wine
D. Cooking something new from scratch and savouring it slowly over lunch
Where do you dream of living?
A. A penthouse with city views and sleek furniture
B. A breezy beach bungalow with sand between your toes
C. A cozy cabin tucked into the mountains
D. A warm and welcoming cottage surrounded by fruit trees and neighbours who pop by uninvited (in the best way)
What’s your ideal meal?
A. Creative fine dining that looks like art on a plate
B. Something fresh off the grill — preferably seafood
C. Hearty comfort food (bonus points for beer and cheese)
D. A nourishing, home-cooked meal with local veggies and simple flavours
What kind of weather makes you happiest?
A. Temperate enough to wear a great outfit and still feel chic
B. Hot, sunny, and perfect for a sarong or swim trunks
C. Crisp mountain air that calls for layers and boots
D. Warm but not scorching — perfect for casual, comfy clothes
What kind of event would you most likely go to?
A. A concert or indie film screening
B. A beach party or low-key rave
C. A beer and food festival in a scenic village square
D. A lively local carnival with music, crafts, and dancing in the streets
What’s your favourite way to wake up?
A. To the buzz of the city and the scent of espresso
B. Birds chirping and sunlight streaming through the windows
C. The rustling of leaves and maybe a crackling fireplace
D. A rooster crowing and the smell of something baking
How do you spend your ideal weekend?
A. Catching a film, visiting an exhibit, or exploring a new café
B. Snorkelling, kayaking, or just lounging by the shore
C. Hiking, foraging, or getting your hands dirty in the garden
D. Reading, journaling, or making a slow meal with friends
What’s your idea of a perfect date?
A. A tasting menu at a Michelin-star restaurant
B. Sailing at sunset, drinks in hand
C. A simple picnic with a view
D. Staying in and cooking something together, barefoot and happy
How social are you?
A. Extremely — I thrive on meeting new people and being in the mix
B. I’m friendly and open, but I don’t need a crowd
C. I’m more of a one-on-one person — and I really value my alone time
D. I prefer deep connections and meaningful conversation (or hanging out with animals, honestly)
What’s your drink of choice?
A. A well-crafted cocktail or something bubbly
B. Fresh juice or a smoothie
C. Local beer or wine — simple and satisfying
D. A steaming mug of tea or rich, strong coffee
🧭 Time to tally up!
Count how many A’s, B’s, C’s, and D’s you got. If your answers fall into one clear category, great—you’ve got a vibe. If they’re a mix, you might be a hybrid (no surprise, life isn’t one-size-fits-all).
🌆 A — Urban Explorer
You’re a culture sponge. You thrive in dynamic places where the espresso is strong, the art is bold, and the possibilities feel endless. Think: bustling markets, late-night jazz clubs, walkable streets, and ten different languages in earshot. You're fuelled by curiosity, connection, and the thrill of being part of something.
You’ll love: Barcelona, Tokyo, Lisbon, Buenos Aires, Mexico City
🌴 B — Coastal Dreamer
Slow mornings. Salt on your skin. A deep need to exhale. You belong somewhere where the water is clear, the days are long, and shoes are optional. You’re not trying to impress anyone—you’re here to unwind, connect, and maybe learn how to surf or nap like a pro.
You’ll love: Koh Phangan, Bali, Canary Islands, Tulum, Zanzibar
🏔 C — Nature Seeker
Solitude is sacred, and nature is your sanctuary. You don’t mind getting your hands dirty or taking the long way around if it means peace, quiet, and epic views. You’re probably a deep thinker, a good listener, and maybe even a little bit mystical.
You’ll love: Chiang Mai, San Cristóbal de las Casas, the Pyrenees, Oaxaca’s highlands, the Dolomites
🐓 D — Rooted Romantic
You’re all about meaningful simplicity. You value community, connection, and daily life that’s grounded and slow. You don’t mind hard work — especially when it’s in service of something real, like growing food, raising kids, or putting down roots.
You’ll love: Rural France, Southern Spain, Central Portugal, Northern Thailand, Sicily’s countryside
💭 So, where do you belong?
Share your result in the comments — and if you’re already living somewhere that suits your destination personality, tell us what it’s really like.
Let’s swap stories. 🌍
And don’t forget to make the most of this quiz by using your answers to filter through 277+ destinations in our giant Living Abroad Locales database, now live! Check it out here.
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Whew. Relieved that I ended up in the right place.
Oh man, a Cosmo quiz. That’s some OG vibes. Your quiz was just as much fun, maybe more, since it wasn’t about finding a perfect mate, but finding my happy place. (I’m a mix of a few of them.)